How many time have you wondered about the right time? The right time to change jobs, to go for love, to create a business, to try that college thing again…?
We tend to wait for that moment when we know enough, have lived enough or are certain enough. The thing is, you’ll never truly be done growing up, learning enough or be 100% certain… Life is an ever going process of self-development and choices.
You live and you learn, there is no way around that.
No one is expected to know how to be 21, 30, 40 and so on, before they get there… When have you ever heard someone say “this time when I turn 28 I know exactly what to do!” ? Yup, you haven’t, because no one knows what it’s like to turn a certain age, until they actually do.
The same way, you can’t see the future of your action and be absolutely sure it will work. Only trying will you be certain of the results you can accomplish.
Stop waiting for the right time to accomplish something; to become something else; to change your life. Just take the time you have now and be happy while you can!
Be who you are and act towards who you want to become
Are you the same person you were 5 years ago? Do you want to grow your skills and develop in a certain area? Does your life satisfy who you are now?
Connect yourself with the person you have become. You aren’t the same as you where 5-10 years ago. Evaluate if what you are doing now serves your future goals.
Don’t live today for the goals of someone else… even if that someone else is the you of yesterday. How about if who you are today doesn’t satisfy you? Do you know what you need to do to change?
You can become whomever you wish if you can just believe it and act upon it. However, only by doing something different will something change.
“Create a goal and a purpose to live for, work for, and die for.”
Have you been looking for a reason to act ? An idea that guides every area of your life?
Discover what your life is meant to be about and create something worthwhile. Identify your purpose and use it as a compass that guides your every step to a happy life.
Live a life worthy of the time you have left
Are you waiting for a happy ending or creating a happy journey? Don’t let not knowing how it’ll end keep you from beginning, the ride is most often worthwhile.
To lead a life that makes sense to you, always act according to your values and beliefs. You don’t owe neither your time nor your attention to anyone. Choose the worthy ones and ensure your time is well invested! “Have confidence in what you desire, purpose in your goal and consistency in your action.” You can ensure success if you do.
So, what are you doing today to be happy? The first step is always the hardest, but only you can take it. Will you?